Friday, June 15, 2007
Mother or Mother F**ker
Sori for d vulgarities and lingo, Im reali exasperated by how hard a mum can push a golden chance 2 b reunited by her own flesh and blood(after 22 years of seperation).... As u all noe, Iman's mum is my sis aka my parents anak angkat... She was abondoned by her mum wen shes about 5 months old and recently wen her mum 's face appeared on a local newspaper, my dad alerted us and suggested dat I called d reporter 2 get hold of my sis mum, aka Iman's grandmother aka R.A. (Shes not a porn star but her name is R Bte A, dat makes her R.A.
Reporters r not only office bound as they werk outdoors most of d times. I tried contacting d reporter a certain Ms Has a couple of times and left messages... A week later, she returned my call and I told her abt my intention 2 reunite my sis wif her natural mum R.A. .... Ms Has promised me dat she would help me and contact me again wif good news.... Den guess wat....R.A. told d reporter dat she wanted 2 ascertain d identity of her daughter b4 she meets up wif her.. WTF!!!!! Its proven in d birth cert dat she is d real mother, her name is printed there, wats there 2 ascertain....In d end d reporter gave me her number and in return exchanged wif my hp no...(She wanted 2 verify her daughter's identity but she even got d year her daughter was born wrongly... 1986 instead 0f 1985)
I send an sms saying dat Im her daughter's sis and Im contactable via hp and she can call me wen shes free...... She replied and wants a call back at 6pm which I did but she rejected my call and smsed me saying shes busy and will call me bk 3 hours later... By 10pm, I was damn frustated of d waiting game dat I smsed her in a harsh manner and I signed off as her full name with her father's name as well as her arwah hub name .. U wanna verify me rite ... Ambik kau ubat aku dah divulge all d info...
MY question is :-
1) Wat type of mum is she wen given a chance 2 mit her daughter she doesnt seem a bit excited at all and hesistant 2 entertain me??? They have never met for 22 years.. MY sis has never got a chance to meet her natural mum and dad and siblings(sampai d dad and adik dah jadi arwah)
2) She asked abt my mum and dad and thankful for them for bringing her daughter up but she did not least asked abt her daughter??
3) She is so full of her 'only son' (who just passed away last month)... In d newspaper article she contradicted herself stating dat dis is her only son and d rest of her 3 daughters r from her 2nd marriage... (she has 4 kids from d 1st marriage which she denied and my sis has 3 other siblings).... Padahal she has 4 kids (d elder daughter she gave away 2 a Malaysian, d 2nd daughter who is my sis she gave away 2 my parents, one son she gave away , and d only son whom she treasure and sangjung2 telah kembali ke rahmatullah sometime last mth on her birthday.... D only son dat she claimed has been taken away 2 another alam.... Astagfirlhallazim..
4)Wen I mentioned dat she has a grandchild dat looked like her arwah son, shes not d least touched or excited but kept on yakking an yakking abt her arwah son.... R.A. go listen to Imran Ajmain song lah. yang sudah tu sudah, tangis tiada berlagu!!!
5) I told her I needed time 2 arrange for a meet up as I have 2 get hold of my run-away sis but guess wat R.A told me 2 give her ample time and notice as she has 2 ensure dat its doesnt clash wif her schedule like family commitment and werk... nak antar anak gi madrasah on sat blah blah blah... U mean u cant even skip one lesson so dat u can b reunited wif your flesh and blood whom u abandoned 22 years ago and GOD has given u a chance 2 reunite but u r not taking it seriously....
6) Never once did I mentioned how a bad hat my sis was, I did not even mentioned dat my sis abandoned Iman wen he was 5 mths old and never came back and she did only recently... Sumpah I did not reveal and divulge anything.... Imagine her shock if she finds out wateva she did 22 years back again was back in a cycle and her daughter 2 would do d same ting as her... Assholes!!!! Aku ader lah nak cover2 in hope dat she would be dying 2 c her daughter but in d end shes more interested on her dead son.... Sedekah lah alfatihah or yassin would be an appropriate ting 2 do, nie tidak she kept on yakking and yakking about her arwah son....
7) I will still try my very best 2 reunite mother and daughter (Insyallah) no matter wat... D reporter wanted 2 part of d reunion, Im ok wif it coz dis is all done wif good intentions but R.A refused stating dat she actually kept this from her sisters.. Babi punya perempuan, anak sendiri pun nak sembunyi kan ker... BUkan orang tak tahu dia ada anak 4... Dah lah reporter tu kau goreng and said u only have one kid from your previous marriage... N now u wanna trick me, not so easy k... Ive already exposed dat u have 4 kids...
8) My mum and dad r sincere in bringing my sis up... They dont expect any monetary returns or watsoeva.... Its only dat my sis has some psychological effects and turned out 2 b an ungrateful kid...Anyway like mother like daughter.. dua kali 5 dol... Cant b helped... If they wanna contradict and doest wanna face reality, so b it... Nak lubang pun tak agak2... Not so easy 2 lubang me..
Lets just pray a reunion will happen despite all d hurdles and hiccups.... Theres already 2 death among d family and its never 2 late 2 reunite them again... Pray for them ya my frens....
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