Sunday, June 10, 2007
Made (Maid ) 2 Order
My domestic helper have been ard for about 4 months... As far as Im concerned, Im pleasantly pleased wif her performance and work attitude.... Shes doesnt skive, she does d household chores preti well, adapt 2 d surroundings, handling d kiddos attics and kips d house real clean dat I can even c my teeth sparking on d floor tiles!! ( abit exegerated)...
Im always a strong believer on d phrase "RESPECT BEGETS RESPECT'. If u wan someone 2 respect u, u have 2 respect d person as well... N theres no nid 2 treat d maid as a 2nd class standard.... We r no QUEEN and KING here and we certainly cant treat a maid as a SLAVE... One tings for sure, she EATS wateva I eat and cook. Shes free 2 snack on wateva food dats in d fridge.... She can DRINk wateva she wants (EXCEPT alcoholic drinks of coz, she wont anyway, muehehehe) N she can pray weneva she wants and its not within the 5 waktu sehari limitations...(sembahyang sunat or nak mengaji by all means do it) She doesnt nid 2 seek my permission 2 TALK TO D ALMIGHTY... Shes free to do dat by all means... Im pretty aghast wen I hear people (muslims) bragging abt she doesnt stop d maid 2 pray or d maid eats a pretty big portion of food or big serving of rice... HELLO... If u can freaking pay d government levy and her salary, wats d big deal about providing food for her (its in d contract u dumbos), wats more how many packs of rice can she finish a month... Unless your maid is a descendant of MIKE TYSON, mayb she's nid many PROTEIN-DIET 2 build muscle... LOL...
Ive even stressed 2 my domestic helper dat she should let d kids b independent and not giving in to their nids and wants... After a meal or finishing d milk, d kiddos have 2 placed their milk bottles in d sink.. They have 2 carry their own school bag, put on their own shoes... Im pretty aghast how some maid r juz paid 2 wait on some kids.... Ridiculous.. Ridiculos....
As for me, Im leading a relatively 'free from household chores life'... Its been eons since I last hold a mop, my vacuum cleaner, d washing machine.. My household chores revolves cooking only.. I still cook for my dearest family...... And d best part I dunt have 2 scrub d pots and pans anymore... Hehehehe.... Dah boleh feeling2 chef lah 2...
But d saddest part will always b negative vibes thrown by people... It even came from a certain family member. Someone commented dat I should place some loose change like 10 buckeros on d side table and c if d money goes missing at d end of day, or spy on her every now n then... Check dat all d furnitures r dust free and blah blah blah.... I dunt do all dis silly f**king nonsence stuff... I have brains and I wont allow my brains 2 stoop 2 such low and unethical method...... N she even commented dat d toiletries like shampoo, deodorants, and shower foams have 2 b deducted from her salary and d maid have 2 seperate and hand wash her own clothes.... Mite as well u say if u mak bapak sleep at your house, u also want them 2 seperate and hand wash their own clothes and bring their own toiletries.... N a cousin who has a maid told me maid cannot b trusted at all and expect me 2 grill her!! Please lor, even boyfren, colleagues, frens sometimes also cannot b trusted wat...... Ya ya lets c wat excuse she will give wen she return d maid bk 2 d agency(shes capable of giving xcuses 2 cover up her sinful act)... Padahal padahal....
My werd of advice, if d maid doesnt perform juz return her back 2 d agency,. Dunt torture her physically and mentally. Dunt give her a miserable toothbrush and let her brush d whole bathroom for goodness sake.!!! Juz return her and get a replacement maid!! It makes life easier for both parties....
My heartfelt thanks for my helper for easing my load of never-ending household chores Rica and also 2 my beloved Riz for making dis possible...
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