Saturday, August 26, 2006
Stop at 2...
One things for sure, d gomen cant never rely on me to boost up d nation's declining birth-rate....Read on 2 find out more :)
I was impregnated by Riz 2 mths after our marriage wen in fact it should have been a year later after our marriage... It wasnt a case where we wanted 2 b twosome n enjoying our honeymoon for a year but it was bcoz my contract (in a construction firm) has juz ended, we juz got our new home, n our only mode of transporation (which was his Xr4) was always breaking down... SO there we were a new home wif so many financial strains, a new baby in d making and a 'new' single income.. So we had 2 rely on Riz's single income 2 cover everything....... Wen lil Ash came into d werld in 2002, I wanted 2 b a werking mother 2 help ease d household income but I couldnt.. Reason being hes 2 dependant on me n in lil Ash werld, theres only me n him.. He would cry cry cry wen someone else carried him, be it Crab, my mil, my mother or even Riz his father... So there goes my chance.... I had 2 b a SAHM.....
Lil Syura came 2 and a half years later.... N it wasnt ez being a werking mother wif 2 kiddos.... Try going for job interviews n d 1st question they will ask u wen u r married wif kiddos r :
1) So who will look after your kiddos wen u r werking???
2) Do u nid 2 rush home after werk or can u do OT wen d need arises coz u have kids??
KNN... So much 4 d child-proactive-ness... We r always at d losing ends of d singles... N its doesnt help dat we r living in a fast paced society which goes by d ruling of "pay and pay"
Now after much tots, Ive decided 2 stop at two!! Two would b an ideal number if u have one boy and a gal... They can play wif one another, fite wif one another....N enuff headache for me too!!! SO for those who tinks one is enuff, aper lagi make one more lah.......
Whos says its difficult looking after 2 kiddos, juz feed them 2getha-getha lah....
C wen one nids milk, d other one wil also nids milk.. So without them asking I will prepare milk for both of them at d same time..
EVen wen it comes to bathing time, I would bath them 2getha.. sometimes I would even bath wif them.. Save time n water!!! :)
I can even use one towel 2 wrap both of them.. LOL. Dis was wat my mum used 2 practise wen Crab n me was little...
They will nap 2getha.. Wen one is sleeping, d other one wil obviously follow suit... Mum included too !!!
C wen it come to play-time, they wld enjoy each other's company... :)
U Go Gurl @ 8:52 PM || | ||
Whos says its difficult looking after 2 kiddos, juz feed them 2getha-getha lah.... 
C wen one nids milk, d other one wil also nids milk.. So without them asking I will prepare milk for both of them at d same time..
EVen wen it comes to bathing time, I would bath them 2getha.. sometimes I would even bath wif them.. Save time n water!!! :)
I can even use one towel 2 wrap both of them.. LOL. Dis was wat my mum used 2 practise wen Crab n me was little...
They will nap 2getha.. Wen one is sleeping, d other one wil obviously follow suit... Mum included too !!! 
C wen it come to play-time, they wld enjoy each other's company... :)
