Tuesday, November 29, 2005
Stoopid n Submissive
An acquaintance dat I noe for d past 10 years appeared into d picture again.. She shifted 2 a unit near 2 my MIL house... Finally after 10 years of courtship she married her BF at d age of 35 (shes 40 now)... N d sad part is even thou Riz is a close buddy of her hubi, no one knew about d wedding... Coz her hub refuse 2 accept d fact dat hes married now.. So its juz a simple nikah n kenduri.. How could she even accept a hubi who wont acknowledge her as a wife , only someone he juz kenal2 kat busstop.. My fren may not b preti, but she has a pair of eyes, nose, mulut but she cukup sifat... I tink her hub is a sadist
He wont allow her 2 wear panties at all
No rice for lunch only dinner but moderate amount
Decide wat she wear (which always end up as faux pas)
Shes not allowed 2 buy anything unless shes given d green lite 2 (shoes, bags)
Scream at her wen hes not in a good mood wif F language
Ignore her wen hes wif his family
Worst still he had an affair b4
D saddest part is hes been unemployed for 5 mths... I cant interfere as Im juz an outsider n shes old enuff 2tink wats good n wats bad.... At d most she can only pour her heart out 2 me... I juz dun understand y gals tink dat a marriage can change a guy... A leopard wont change it spots.. As 4 me, syukur alhamdulilah I am blessed wif a wonderful n caring hub.. He may not b rich (yawn), he may b abang2 or bapak2 (as wat some beeches claimed)but HES MINE!!!
His good points
He put me n family 1st
Have good religious background
Never fail 2 perform his prayers on time (unlike me always tunggu hujung waktu den baru nak kelam kabut)
Respect elderly
Willing 2 take d risk for his future . Each time wen hes in his comfort zone, he will scout for other job prospects even if theres a pay cut.....
PS: MY advise 2 unattached gals
Noe ya bf well b4 signing dat cert... A moment of folly could lead 2 a ruined future.... Not only yr life will b ruined your kiddos will also suffer.... My hearts goes out 2 my fren n whoeva is in her plight.......
U Go Gurl @ 9:24 PM || | ||
